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Women Only: 6 Reliable Dating Tips to Use After Divorce

When it comes to dating after a divorce, you need to tread softly and not make any mistakes. There are rules you need to apply if you are divorced and out of circulation for awhile. Here are 6 dating tips to use  if you really want to find love after a break-up.

       1.Caution is Key                     

When you are fresh out of a divorce, you need to proceed with caution. And not enter a relationship that will leave you worse off. Learn to strike a balance with friends, acquaintances and that special someone. Do not allow your hormones do the talking. Enter every potential  relationship with caution.

     2.Go With Your Gut

Another good dating tip to use after a divorce is instinct. Many of us go with a certain type of person. A person coined from a magazine or movie. Be real. Go with your gut and what works. And not a fantasy idea you read from the Internet.  Lose the checklist and go for what makes you really happy.

3.  Grow thick Skin

Dating after a divorce is not a bed of roses. You are going to meet interesting people during your dating quest. So prepare yourself to put up with excesses. You want a relationship, so be tolerant about what comes your way. If you don’t like what you see, don’t be a nuisance about it. Take it with some thick skin and break the “it- is- not- working” news as gently as you can.

4.  Reality Bites

Be prepared. There are people you will like who will not like you back. They might be commitment- shy. He might offer lame excuses like work, sickness and all that. Don’t sink with flimsy excuses, move on  with life. Not everything always works according to how we want it. Get used to it.

5.Get Girlfriends

If you are not the sociable type. Or have friends who have experience is in the singles dating department, you need to find them. They are valuable resources. They can point you in the right direction. And offer you valuable tips to use in dating after a divorce. In the wacky world of divorce dating, you need all the help you can get.

6.The Ex-factor

When you are making a pitch for a relationship, go for something new. Do not measure everyone with your ex. Defy your nature and go for someone different and  totally opposite from your ex and what you are used to. Sometimes, to make progress you need to walk in the opposite direction.

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Using a Dating Service Washington DC: Is it worth it?

The question is: is it worth paying a Dating Service Washington DC to help you find a date? The answer: yes! Here is why.

When do you have time to just go out and meet new people? Where would you go, anyway? And how would you introduce yourself? “Hi, I’m John. I’m looking for a prospective date.” If you did that, you would only get weird looks and rejection. When you call chat lines or use an adult dating service online, you do not have to worry about all that. First of all, you can use the services from the comfort of your own home in your spare time. Second of all, you know the person on the other end in interested in finding a date as well because that is what the service is exclusively for.

If you were to go out to a bar, you would most likely be buying someone a drink or two anyway. Plus, the cost of your own food and drinks, gas, etc. So, not using a Dating Service Washington DC is still costing you.

Then, there is a type of dating service that some like to call the “never pay for a first date” way. Have you ever heard of speed dating and singles profile dinners? It is where you pay -30 (depending on the location & type of event) to meet a bunch of people in one night. The speed dating events have a cash bar, and the profile dinners are exactly that: dinners. These types of events take place in laid-back places. Everyone there is there for the same thing: to meet other singles. There are usually 20+ men and 20+ women at events like this, so they are a great way to meet more than one person in a one or two hour time period (versus meeting a few people in that amount of time any other way). It is like paying -30 to go on 20 first dates in one night– a money and time saver!

So, if you are still wondering whether or not paying someone to help you meet singles is worth it, I encourage you to try one of the Dating Service Washington DC mentioned above. Or you could keep paying to try and find a date on your own; the choice is yours.

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Etiquettes of Online Dating That You Must Learn

When it comes to social manners, real time dating is quite different from online dating. If you are considering finding hot singles on the World Wide Web, here’s a quick lesson on the etiquettes that you need to follow.

When you meet a person online, say on a date site, remember that you have not actually met the person yet. And therefore the pressure to create a flawless and perfect first impression is immense. However, do not sweat or succumb to pressure. It is perfectly alright to correspond with many singles at one time. However, abstain from portraying a Casanova character.

To get started with knowing your date or dates better, you can exchange emails. Most virtual daters consider the Internet as an absolute necessity of online dating. Writing emails will help you get to know the other person properly and allow you to express your thoughts and feelings in a subtle and elegant manner. Initially, you might not get as many responses as the number of emails that you send but if you stay steady and show the other person that you are giving them attention, the number of responses will gradually increase. While writing mails to them, try to engage them in a conversation instead of simply talking about yourself. After all, emails are written to get to know the other person better, isn’t it?



If someone finds you attractive and emails you but for whatever reason you do not wish to continue the correspondence further, it is perfectly alright to stop responding to their email. Virtual world is a spooky place and you never know what other people’s intention might be. Similarly, breaking with someone you’ve met online is perfectly fine too, if you have not really met the person in real life. Sending an email saying you can no longer correspond with them is perfectly fine and you need not feel guilty about it. Listen to your heart and try to find what you are actually looking for. In fact, this helps the other person to move on to better choices too! But, if your have met your virtual date several times in real life, you must break up with them face to face.

Finally, do not keep your online dating profile up for other interested men and women to ping or message you if you have already found a partner and are in a serious relationships. You might like to see where your relationship with your current partner is actually headed before deciding to be available to other singles again.

Here’s hoping these tips will help you come across suitable singles in your area.

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Dating Services Washington DC

No matter where I am or what I am doing, it seems like Dating Services Washington DC is everywhere.  I try so hard to avoid the whole topic, yet I can not get away from it!

When I woke up this morning, I turned on the TV.  I was watching the morning news while I was drinking my first cup of caramel coffee, and a commercial came on about a mutual match adult dating service online.  The commercial was targeted towards twenty year old black Christian singles in the Washington DC metropolitan area.

I decided to take the metro to work today.  At the station, I saw an advertisement for gay/lesbian/bisexual Dating Services Washington DC.  There was a coupon on the back of my Starbucks receipt for half off a Jewish speed dating, thirty five plus speed dating, or singles with post graduate and graduate degrees speed dating with Professionals in the City.  There was even an advertisement on the radio in the break room at work for a wing man service that is now offering wing women.

All of the ads on the sides of websites seem to be for online dating services.  I also came across at least three job offers for marketing positions relating to them.  Everyone must be doing this new type of dating because the meat cutter at the super market deli mentioned that he had tickets to a speed dating tonight, and my best friend invited me to go to a double date speed dating at K Street Lounge with her.

I was going to go to my favorite bar for a late night drink, but there was a lock and key party going on there, so I could not get in.  When I logged in to my e-mail, thinking I could finally get a break from all of it, the first e-mail in my inbox was about Dating Services Washington DC testimonials and success stories.  Well, one thing I can say is that these services are really popular, and they must really work because they are all I see and all I hear about!

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First Dating Tip: How To Have Fun On A Big Date

Okay, the guy you’ve been crushing on forever just called and asked you out. You want the night to be perfect. Follow these first dating tips to have a wonderful, safe time.

First Dating Tip #1: Clarify the Details

When you hear the words “big date,” you may be thinking formal gowns and tuxedos. Your guy may be thinking dinner and a movie. So clarify what you’re going to do and what kind of dress code is expected.

First Dating Tip #2: It’s All in the Attitude

Many girls would do anything to snag that first date, even agree to go rock climbing when their idea of a hard workout is changing the channel on the television set. These dates often end with everyone in a bad mood. If you’ve agreed to an activity you don’t really like, be a good sport about it. You might have fun. At the very least, you can get to a second date by saying, “Next time we’ll have to try something I’m good at.”



First Dating Tip #3: Communicate

Girls tend to get chatty when they’re nervous; guys tend to clam up. Girls usually spill their deepest secrets in fifteen seconds or less; guys may never spill them at all. On the first date, keep the conversation light. Try to make sure you each do about 50% of the talking. If he’s playing the strong, silent type, try to get him speaking by asking about his interests. Use open ended questions. “Did you like the movie?” can be answered with a yes or a no. “What did you like best about the movie?” requires a little more speech.

First Dating Tip #4: Stay Sober

Sure, alcohol lubricates the tongue, but a lubricated tongue can say things that make you want to curl up and die when you think back on them the next morning. More importantly, being sober can keep you safe. Up to 90% of date rapes occur when one or more parties have been drinking.

First Dating Tip #5: Follow Up

If you had a nice time, do something the next day to let the guy know. E-mail him, text message him, phone him, or send him a nice note. Thank him for a nice time and suggest another activity you could do together. (For instance: “Loved watching the football game with you. Are you up for basketball next week?”) Guys often aren’t sure what to do after a first date, and this kind of follow up points him in the right direction.

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Top Dating Tips – Your Dating Game Just Got A Hell Of A Lot Easier

In the dating game and looking for some top dating tips? Congratulations, because we’ve compiled some great tips that will give you INSTANT success!

Top Dating Tips Number 1 – Withholding Your Name For The Mystery Factor:

When you first start talking to a woman, never reveal your name, unless she specifically asks for it. If you withhold your name it will add a sense of mystery to you that will keep the girl very interested!

Top Dating Tips Number 2 – Say No To Instant Answers & Replies:

If you’re talking to a girl and she is telling you something, and you’re not sure what to say or do next, run 5 simple words through your head: how, why, what, where, when. You’ll instantly find new statements and questions you can ask by using these 5 words to keep the conversation going. It will also make it look as if you have actually LISTENED to every word the girl said…



Top Dating Tips Number 3 – One Way Number Swaps Are A No Go:

Never only give your number to a girl. Doing so leaves too high a chance that she wont call you! Instead, just get hers or do a two way swap…she gives you her number, and you give her yours. The balance of equal power makes the end of the conversation feel less like a standard pickup.

Top Dating Tips Number 4 – Let Her Know You’re Sexualy Interested:

Never be afraid to make it obvious you are attracted to a girl you are talking to! Women give their indications of their interest in a man through body language, like the things they say, and other flirty behavior. But, they need something in return. Once you have been talking to a woman for a while, and you feel like you’re getting on well, tell the girl you think she is very sexy.

Don’t say you think she’s nice or attractive, say sexy. This will let her know how you feel and if you have been getting on really well, chances are she will love hearing you say it and get even more flirtatious and hands on with you!

Top Dating Tips Number 5 – Progress With Your Questioning:

Always remember that open ended questions are better than those that are easy to answer with a simple “yes” or “No”. So for instance instead of asking a girl “Do you like working here” ask the question ” So, what’s it like working here?”.

Let’s do another example. Instead of asking “have you had a good day?” Ask her “So, what’s the best thing that’s happened to you today then?”

So there’s 5 top dating tips that will get you on more dates if you use them in your pickup. There’s plenty more on the site below.

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