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Dating Tips for Guys – How to Handle Dating More Than One Woman

When the topic of dating more than one woman comes up, things tend to get a bit polarized. Some people think that it is wrong to date more than one woman at a time and there’s nothing that you can do to change their mind. And then there are some that are open to the idea, simply because they are not really in frame of mind where they want to just be focused on one woman. I’m going to assume that you are in the second group, because well, you probably would not be reading this article if you weren’t.

Personally, I see nothing wrong with dating more than one woman at a time, as long as you are not telling them that you are being exclusive to them and then running around behind their back. Dating has gotten a lot more modern anyways, and even a lot of women don’t want to be exclusive or rush things into commitment too soon.

Here are some dating tips for guys on how to handle dating more than one woman:

1. I have to say it again… you need to make sure that the women you are dating are aware that it is not an exclusive relationship.

Try to get around this, and you are pretty much guaranteed to end up in a sticky situation somewhere down the road. Some guys make the assumption that they have to hide the fact that they are seeing more than one woman, because they don’t think any woman will be cool with it. Times have changed and she’s more than likely going to be cool with it as long as you are not playing games with her.

2. You have to make sure that you can handle being open about things and allowing her the same luxury.

It’s not going to work out in most situations if you expect that she needs to be exclusive to you, and that you can go and do your own thing. So, you need to be able to handle the possibility that whatever woman you are not with could very well be out on a date with another guy. If you can’t handle this, then dating more than one woman probably is not for you.

3. You need to be responsible.

Hey, if you are going to play the field, then you cannot allow yourself to slack on the safety. Always make sure that you are protected when you are dating more than one woman. Most guys don’t think about safe sex until it is too late, but if you are going to date more than one woman at a time, this should definitely be on your mind at all times.

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Dating Tips For Men – What To Say On Your First Date

1. Okay, so she has a great body and great cleavage but that does not mean that you have to be like a deer caught in headlights. Try to focus on her eyes instead and safe yourself from a burning cheek. I know it is difficult but at least try.

2. Make her feel better about herself for having spent time with you and you are guaranteed a second date. How do you do that? Easy, pay attention to her. Ask her questions and do try to listen to her answers, got you, you were looking at the headlights again.

3. Ask her more questions based on what she has said, this will make her realize that you’ve been listening, hopefully, and this will score you some points.

4. Don’t imitate Napoleon. I am sure he would approve but your date is not some target that needs to be attacked from all corners, leaving no stone unturned. This is a very important dating tip for men as your date will feel like the subject of a forensic investigation if you pepper her with too many questions.

5. Find out what her interests are. Ask her about her hobbies and her taste in music. Show sincere interest and also answer her questions honestly which leads us to the next tip.

6. Don’t pretend to be Indiana Jones only for her to find out that you are more of a collecting butterflies man. Nothing against the butterfly men but it is important to be honest if you intend to be more than just friends. While we are on the subject of friends, don’t fall into the fly, sorry, I mean friend trap, most men don’t even see it coming.

7. Don’t do the checklist thing. Your questions to her should be as natural as possible. Also try to avoid questions like “Do you have medical insurance?” and “How much money do you make?” You might not like the answer to the second question.

8. Don’t be a whinger. Seriously, save that for when you’ve already endeared yourself to them. I know people who have spent their entire first date discussing the merits of Snow Patrol over Coldplay or Tom Cruise over Hugh Grant.

9. This is undoubtedly one of the most important dating tips for men, wait for it, DON’T EVER ask her about past relationships. This is a death trap that few can survive. The dry bones in the desert whisper it constantly for the wind to carry to those ears that still have a chance. Also, don’t volunteer information on your past relationships – there will be enough time for that later. I don’t understand why so many people find it necessary to do this. Trust me, no good will come from it.

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Are Christian Online Dating Services Your Answer?

Have you heard about the Christian online dating services that are available? Online dating sites have become more prevalent in the past few years. At the same time, they are becoming more and more specialized. No where is this more true than in the area of religious preferences. There are actually dating sites catering to Christians. Currently these Christian online dating services claim a membership of approximately one half million members. These individuals are using the criteria of Christianity as they seek out singles who share this commitment and are interested in finding friendship and, perhaps, romance.

Christians live in a variety of communities and have a variety of interests. These sites give them the opportunity to meet others who share their religious beliefs and commitment. The challenges of being new in town can be overcome this way. That’s what makes these Christian online dating services so popular.

In addition to meeting others, these sites give their members opportunities for spiritual and social growth. For example, the Christian online dating services have chat rooms available to members for Bible study and discussion. In today’s world, it may be difficult to find a study group that meets at a time convenient for the individual. Chat rooms allow for conversation and discussion at almost any time.



What is true for all dating sites is also true for Christian online dating services. The site itself and the services it offers must be appropriate for the potential member. The more this type of site mirrors the beliefs and values of their members, the greater the opportunity to meet individuals and build deep and lasting friendships and, perhaps, find romance. Since many of these sites provide a free trial period of some sort, researching the number of Christians within a specific geographic area and learning what the site has to offer can be done without a financial outlay.  

The adventure has never been greater. Once a user upgrades from a free to a paid membership, contacting another single is facilitated.  Since the rates are reasonable, it is one way to expand friendships without paying a high price.

There are thousands of singles using the services of a Christian on line dating service. With the services, some of them may never have met the individuals who grew from friendship to romance to a life time partnership. So, there’s no reason not to give one of these Christian online dating services a try and see if you may just find someone special.

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Dating Tips to Get the Guy: 10 tips to keep YOU on HIS mind!

Ok, let’s be honest…guys are animals and they do have a predator-prey mentality.  They enjoy the challenge and if it’s too easy to pounce on the prize then they’ll be looking for their next gazelle in no time!  It isn’t about playing games, it’s about playing it smart.  You still need to be yourself but at first you don’t need to reveal everything and giving him a little at a time can pay off a lot!

1)      Get beautified for your date!  It makes you feel sexy and him fall off the barstool when you walk into the restaurant (if it’s a first time date than you should meet him and not let him pick you up unless he’s a good friend of a friend or you’ve known him).  Get a Mani Pedi (or do one yourself), where a nice dress (only reveal to your comfort level but stay classy (slutty will only have him thinking your easy) and where high heels because it will elongate your legs and is the signature footwear of a women.  Remember, if you feel beautiful and sexy then it will project onto everyone around you!  Confidence is key!

2)      On your first date, try to talk about neutral but exciting subjects.  Go with cool experiences, places you’ve traveled, hobbies etc.  Stick to things that determine if you have anything in common.  Stay away from personal subjects like your family, how many kids you want, your timeline for getting married, and your last boyfriend disaster!  I’m not that far off, us women do it all the time and add alcohol to the mix and were an open book!

3)      Make sure your not dominating the conversation.  It’s not a conversation if you’re the only one talking!  Remember to let him chime in and don’t interrupt…it’s annoying to not be able to finish a sentence so raise your awareness of the give and take.

4)      Always be the one to end the date!  This is very important because the more he wonders about you the crazier it makes him!  Don’t be abrupt, just let him know you had a good time (if you did) and that you’ll talk to him soon.  You can say that you have an early morning and if he asks what you have to do then say that you have to work or work-out, they are two good reasons to get up.

5)      Wait for him to call you.  If he’s interested he WILL call, just be patient and go on with your life.  If he doesn’t call then keep moving.  Don’t stop dating because you’re waiting on him and keep busy. 

6)      When he does call, send it to voicemail.  Give him a call back a few hours later and let him know you had a busy day.  Give him some time to wonder why you didn’t pick up…remember the more he thinks about you the better!  Another quick note- Do NOT get in the texting habit!  If he texts you then send back a vague response so he’ll call.  If he text’s that he had a great time on your date then simply text back “me too.”  You do not want to let texting become your main form of communication because it does not give you the opportunity to connect and holds up progress.

7)      When you do talk on the phone make sure that you are the first to get off.  Always demonstrate that you “have a life.”  You want him to recognize your independence and confidence which are both attractive qualities.  At first, try to limit your conversations to 10 minutes to make sure that you close out the convo! 

8)      Reject his first offer on the day for the next date.  If he asks to take you out Saturday then HAVE PLANS and you don’t need to tell him what they are just keep him wondering!  Then you can recommend a day the YOU are available.  If he’s not available on that day than make him wait even longer to see you.  If he rearranges his schedule to take you up on the day your available than you know he’s really into you!

9)      Again, baby steps!  Reveal a little at a time… which brings me to the big reveal!  DON’T have sex to early!  That is one of the things he thinks about, is working for and wants REALLY bad so don’t give it up.  You have to hold out or you’re risking losing him.  Some say to wait 90 days and if that’s what makes you comfortable then go for it but I recommend 5 weeks or 10 dates….whichever comes first!  Again it’s your comfort level!

10)  Don’t go on vacation before the 5 weeks or 10 dates because he’s working hard and that king size bed in the hotel room in his mind is his ticket into your playhouse!  Be careful and keep the key to your chastity belt hidden in a safe place!  One of the biggest mistakes women make is to go away for a weekend and give up the goods.  WAIT and save the weekend away for later!

Those are my top 10 dating tips but remember, anyone coming into your life should enhance it not make it what it is.  Have your own interests, hobbies, and life outside of the relationship.  You want to make sure that if it doesn’t work out you still have things that are just for you.

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Date Tips For Men – How to Date Beautiful Women

Have you ever dreamed that you could date a woman that looked like a model or an actress? I think that we all have had this dream, this desire, but at some point in time, we give up hope that this will happen. You might start to thank, oh well, I just have to be a little more realistic in my goals and expectations. The funny thing is, you can just as easily attract and date beautiful women as you can an average looking girl.

Here are some date tips for men that should help you realize how you can date beautiful women:

1. You are not going to date beautiful women if you don’t get out the house. I am sill shocked and surprised at times when a guy will complain about his lack of a love life, and admit that he all he does is stay at home. You cannot expect to just have women come knocking on your door, unless of course, you live inside of a porno movie. You have to get out of the house and meet as many women as you can.

2. You are not going to date beautiful women if you have low self esteem. Guys that have low self esteem have an especially hard time attracting beautiful women. Think about it though, and it makes some serious sense. Why would a woman that is good looking and can attract just about any guy that she wants, settle in on a guy that has a low self image?

3. You are not going to be able to start dating gorgeous women unless you are an alpha male. The alpha male has always been and will always be the guy that ends up getting the pretty girls. You cannot fight human nature, it’s just how it works. You have to become that alpha male if you want to be able to attract gorgeous women and become the kind of guy that they want to date.

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Meeting Online Singles at Free Online Dating Services

Time is beginning to change amazingly quickly, which is impacting on the attitude of the folks, and the ratio of males when compared with females is certainly going all the way down. You can find far more adult females who would like to marry than there are males to marry. The world is getting tricky for people and it’s also getting very unlikely to get yourself a match within the area or even the city. Relationships may not be working out and also separation and divorce rates are getting higher and also a lot more ladies are becoming single day after day.

On line has taken away the need of venturing out on the lookout for people or even finding a partner at college or even work and this is no uncomplicated job in the present hectic world. These days thousands of single people are at a distance of a click and you can communicate with these people instantly, no matter where they are on the planet. You just need to create your free account on the free online dating service and generate good quality user profile using a respectable user profile photo that is it. Your mail will likely be racing with e-mails as well as invitations.

The sheer numbers of individuals who sign up for free online dating services is growing on a monthly basis all over the world. Searching for singles online provides users additional level of comfort in addition to they can start conversation without exposing themselves and when getting each other in confidence they can provide personal specifics.

Attempting to get a date on singles website gives you the surety that the man or women you happen to be connecting to is single, unlike some other free online dating services in which married individuals can also be looking for a date. The services each website offers may vary and attributes may be limited to a number of services. The two primary categories are free online dating services for singles and paid dating services for singles. Paid online dating services convey more functions including cam conversation and phone possibilities. You just need to choose which type of service you want, you can even upgrade your absolutely free account to paid membership once you are satisfies using the response of the site. This user profile building takes some simple steps and you may view as much singles profiles, as you would like. So if you’re a single and are trying to find your match and have not been able to find it for quite a while, join a singles internet dating internet site right now and let the site do the rest for you.

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