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First Date Tips For Men – What to Do, Where to Go, And What to Know

The first date can make you nervous and wondering what to do. You don’t want to make a fool of yourself. You want to be able to win her over and have her want you. Relax. We have all been in this position before. When I was younger, the first date always made me nervous.

Would I say the right things, would I be able to get her attracted to me?

The thing is, women feel the same pressure and go through the same kind of thoughts. In many ways, most women will have it worse than you do. The thing to remember is to not put the pressure on yourself. If you see a date as what it really is, a chance to go out and have a good time, you will take a mountain of pressure off of your shoulders.

And they will thank you for it.

Here are a couple of first date tips to help you out…

1. Instead of going out and doing the movie and dinner kind of routine, do something a little more relaxed and comfortable. A simple coffee shop will do. A lot of pressure comes off when you are in a situation that seems less like a date. And this works for her as well. She will be more likely to respond to you IF she doesn’t feel pressured to do so.

2. Have the state of mind, that it’s all about having a good time. Don’t think about the future or whether or not she will go out with you again BEFORE you even have your first date. When you are in this frame of mind, then you don’t worry about the little things.

The first date can make you nervous and this is natural. There are many ways that you can learn how to take the pressure off and techniques that will virtually guarantee that it is a success.

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Dating Tips For Single Women- Still Single And Frustrated?

Tip 1.  Single women always express their emotions and thoughts better than single men. That means guys generally have a good sense of what single women want and are after- someone who’s smart, loyal and has a great sense of humor. 

Tip 2.  Remember ladies, if single men talked about their feelings as much as single women do, then dating would be very easy. So how do you find out what single men really want if they don’t tell you?  Simple, ask your girlfriends what he meant when he said he had a really nice time with you and if the third date is too soon to have sex. Your girl friends will only tell you what you want to hear.  You need to be realistic in what guys are really saying.  Guys want a single woman who is consistent and stable. Don’t act one way on the first date and another way on the second date. Stability is the key.

Tip 3.  The goal of dating tips for single women is not to change you into someone else so you can meet more men. Guys don’t want that. Men want someone who is confident. That’s right, confidence really turns them on. If you are happy with yourself and who you are, then he will be too. Men don\’t want drama queens.

Tip 4.  Guys will pick up and notice whatever aspects of yourself you don’t like. If you hate your body type, he will also. It goes both ways. If he doesn’t feel like he is very successful, why would you disagree?

Tip 5.  Remember that a boyfriend will not magically cure everything in your life. You already had a life before you have a boyfriend. A good guy will want to help make things even better. Making someone else happy makes a good relationship. Demanding what you want does not.

Ladies, your assignment for this week is to identify two characteristics about you that you love. Write them down. Now, make sure to let five single men know about these characteristics when you talk to them or meet them. Show yourself off!

Best, Janis Spindel www.askjanisspindel.com 

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Benefits of online dating services free

It is said that you’ll meet your soul mate quite suddenly and at some place or time that you’ll least expect. There are hundreds of stories where you’ll find couples who met and connected and later realized that they are poles apart in terms of thoughts, attitudes, likes and dislikes. At the same time you’ll also find men and women who could connect well and live together happily till the end of their life in spite of their differences. But such meetings were matters of luck or fate, as some people would like to call it.

Today things are far different. When there is Internet for buying groceries, order travel tickets or pizzas or even call and talk to your parents, why not use it for dating as well? It is following this theory that many online dating services have sprung up in different parts of the world. Today there are thousands of websites that provide dating services pertaining to a particular country, locality, religious group, racial group, ethnicity, etc.

Through such websites, you could meet people with similar tastes and opinions and views about life. These websites help you in contacting them and developing a good and healthy personal relationship with them. And most often you could find your prospective life partner through these websites.

Online dating services enable you to chat, send mails, make voice calls or video calls to them and thus create situations where you could get to know each other better. Once you get comfortable online you could take the next step and meet in person. Meeting your date online has different advantages like

  • Convenience

Contrary to those olden times where you had to actually meet the person to know whether he or she is ideal for you, in online dating you could get to know more about the person even before you meet. The online dating service lets you investigate the person before you set out to meet each other. This way you could save a lot of time and efforts. Also, most of these services ask you to provide your images and other details in your profile. This way you proceed with your relationship only if you like what you see at the first glance.

  • Comfortable

Dating is a system that could involve many or at least some awkward or embarrassing moments. For example, if you feel that you cannot be compatible with a person after meeting him or her it becomes awkward for you to tell the person directly that you are not interested any more. Online dating, on the other hand, saves you from such embarrassing situations. Your expectations from a contact are also set in the beginning itself and hence there are no disappointments or misery.

  • Inexpensive

There was a time when dating was synonymous with money loss since all through the getting-to-know stage you are forced to meet at restaurants and coffee shops for your chit chats and thus spend money each time. With online dating except for the cost of the Internet there is no expenditure involved.

  • Safe

Often you set out for a date without knowing anything about a person, at least during the initial stage. Hence, you can’t deny that there is some amount of risk involved in it. Whereas in the case of online dating, you are safe inside your home and you could meet and chat with people without any worries. Besides, most of the online dating services are secure and password protected.

Today, you’ll find no dearth of providers who offer online dating services. However, you need to be highly careful in finding a provider. Make sure it is highly reputed and offer quality service. Check out with friends before registering your name in any such website. Remember, your intention is to find a good human being with whom you might want to share the rest of your life with and therefore any amount of trouble is worth taking.

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