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Online Dating: Profile Names for Men that Attract Clicks!

We’ve discussed several aspects of dating including online dating, text dating and mobile dating. We have also discussed at depth about profile pictures that you should have in order attract suitable hot singles on to your profile and break the ice. Now we are going to discuss something different – something that you must have given a lot of thought (and unknowingly before you zeroed down on one of the million choices. Yes, we are talking about profile names.

While women simply click on most profiles of hot single women, the latter on the other hand pay a lot more attention to details. So if you think you can impress her with a clever or smart profile name, well, you really have to be clever and smart without bordering on the lines of being weird or over assertive. Those are turn offs for women. This brings us to a conclusion – choosing a profile name is quote a task and must be done carefully if you want to get all the clicks from your type of women on a date site. Here are some ideas to help you proceed in portraying the right image.



Let’s talk about the ‘not-so-good’ ideas first – the common mistakes that most of us make while choosing a profile name for ourselves.

Too sexy references: While most date sites won’t allow this, a few cannot check clever spellings and a few don’t acre. But having a sixty-nine in your name or a size reference, well that needs to be changed immediately.
Actor-Actress references: While a name like ‘BondseeksVesper’ sounds cute, it may intimidate and even suffocate a perfectly suitable date. Women read into tiny details so such names as ‘BondLookingForVesper’ can be perceived as your quest for the ‘perfect’ woman and may make many women turn their backs on you thinking that you have way too high expectations. Others may simply find you too very committed-oriented and might get turned off at the very start.
 Bizarre alpha-numeric combinations: Dude that simply shows lack of creativity. It means you did not give much thought to creating your profile in the first place and are not ready for a serious relationship.  .
Teenage spelling: A profile name such as ‘UrGonnaLuvMe’ does not attract women. They only sound immature.
Proclamations of Love. Profile names like BeMine4Ever is an all caps NO. You don’t even know what kind of women is reading your profile. Why give the wrong signals and scare them?

Time for the good ideas now:

Age and location: ‘DennisOntario30′, ‘Robin1979Alberta’, ‘Mike29Vancouver’ are some good examples of letting singles especially women know your age and location at the same time. That’s good for starters!
Name and job: ‘HockeyPlayer34′, ‘ProfessorLuke’ and, ‘BankerSheldon’ are fantastic ways to let potential dates know your name and what you do. Should you want, you can simply stick to the profession and location and remain anonymous till some hot single woman clicks on your profile…and I bet that will happen real soon!

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Its Important to Look Great for an Online Date!

I know a lot of people who are actively into online dating, chat day in and day out with numerous hot and attractive singles but shy away from meeting them face to face. I wonder why! The very first thing that strikes me is, if someone you’ve met online is interested in talking to you and has in fact been talking to you for quite some time, it strongly indicates that the person has a liking towards you. Now if you are looking forward to finding a date online, you’ve got to take that chance and meet the person you have been talking to on the virtual screen in real. It’s the fear of rejection, most of you would say. What if the person you’ve been dating virtually for weeks or months does not like you in real? Well, I’ve been in that spot too and with experience, have only learnt things for the better.

When I started to delve into the world of online dating, I too was not sure whether meeting the person in real life would generate the same level of excitement and intrigue. Nevertheless, given the amount of time I had already spent in getting to know this hot, single woman, I thought meeting her in real was worth giving a try. Little did I know that she would not like (or approve of) my dressing sense at all! He result, I never saw her online again! Lesson learnt; you cannot take your online date for granted. Since first impressions are usually the last impressions (or at least as it seemed in my case), you do have to make the extra effort to at least look presentable (and by that I mean your very best) in front of the other person!



Here are a few quick tips that will help you decide what to wear and how to groom yourself so as to make yourself presentable in front of your online date and get the chemistry going!

Think smart. Do not over dress or under dress, but do try to stay in touch with fashion, especially if you are a man going to meet a woman. Women love men who are aware of the latest trends. Women also love to be spotted with stylish, fashionable men! So, if you plan to wish your online dating partner, dressing up in a cool leather jacket and wearing those suede shoes you’ve tucked away for months will help you earn those brownie points. As for women, my only suggestion is to make the best use of your assets – and by that I mean not just your figure but also your eyes, lips or even hands! Guys love it when women dress up for them. So put on that chic skirt, get a sexy scarf rolling around your neck, wear a good perfume, touch up that lipstick and remember to buff and paint your nails. Even if you do not like to ‘dress up’ usually and think it is something only befitting ‘bimbos’, remember, it is them that get all the hot men!

Above all, be yourself! Carrying the right attitude will always help you attract your online dating partner!

For more tips on online dating or to find singles in your area, please visit www.textdating.ca

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Online Dating Safety

Online dating safety warning signs.

Online dating is a brilliant and increasingly popular way to
meet new people whether to for friendships or take it that step
further but you should always do your utmost to ensure your
online dating safety. There are certain warning signs you should
keep an eye out for when talking to a potential partner and by
looking for and possibly identifying these online dating safety
warning signs you will not only be able to ascertain the
character of a person but also whether they are who they say
they are. Online dating safety is very important and something
you should consider every time you talk to someone from a dating
site.

Everyone genuine person you meet at an online dating site is
after the same thing you are, but they will also have the same
misgivings as you. For this reason if you happen to be talking
to someone who is freely giving out personal information and
asking for the same in return they may not be naïve but quite
possibly deceitful.

Online dating safety tips.

If you have decided you want something of a more personal
relationship with someone you’ve met and they give you a contact
number try ringing it. If you can never get hold of them be very
wary, even if they give you a seemingly reasonable excuse. If
you have to page or text them so they ring you back this is a
real warning sign when considering your online dating safety.
Presumably they have something to hide.

If you seem to be the only half of the relationship that is
making the effort to progress your relationship to the next step
you should step back and take a good look at exactly what they
are saying.

Asking for financial help or other kinds of help should be a
sure fire online dating safety warning sign no matter how
polite, sweet and charming they are. An online relationship has
in no way progressed to the level where they should be asking
you for money.

While it’s true that you should take before you give out your
personal details once you decide that’s the level you want to
move to, it should be a two-sided thing. If the person you are
talking to is entirely unwilling to give out personal details
and you’re sure that you’ve had long enough to get to know each
other then their lack of commitment in wanting to meet you might
indicate a secret.

Insecurity and a need to get married are ore common that you
might think in both men and women and if either of these factors
crop up on a regular basis then you need to decide whether this
is something you can cope with and whether you can stand back it
make the relationship go slower. If not, then you are being
pressurised into moving your relationship further forward than
you want to.

Our final online dating safety warning sign is to avoid
embarrassment and upset. Online dating sites are sometimes
frequented by people looking for something more than a quick
chat, and might be looking for someone to indulge in their
requirements with them. Make sure right from the start that this
isn’t the case.

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How To Meet Women – 5 Essential Dating Tips For Men

There are 5 great dating tips for men when it comes to meeting women, whether you are meeting women online, in a club or in the local bookstore. These 5 surefire dating tips were recently discussed by David Deangelo in his Interviews With Dating Gurus series while he was talking with well known dating coach David M.

The first C is CONFIDENCE. In the dating world, especially for men, confidence is a MUST. Confidence is what sets you apart from the rest of wanna-be alpha males out there. Wear confidence like a cloak, and you will be targeted by women as the alpha male every time. Confidence can be demonstrated in a physical manner by the way you talk and the way you walk. Make your movements slow and deliberate, your gaze firm and unflinching, your back straight, chest out and shoulders back. If you are standing in a club, put your drink at your side rather than in front of you like a shield. Practice a casual nod to acknowledge women and then let your gaze travel to other women to show her you can have your choice of the available goods.

Confidence can even be radiated when approaching and meeting women online. You can show confidence in your online profile or in an email. After you write something, read your writing out loud to make sure it sounds confident and strong. Use example to describe yourself, telling anecdotes that show your alpha male nature.

The second of the 5 C’s of dating tips for men is CONTROL. Self-control, going from the area of dating to all areas of a man’s life, is the beginning brick of a strong inner core that women will be instinctively attracted to. A single man must maintain control at all times. The single man must remain in control of the situation, control of his emotions and most importantly, control of his reactions and responses to situations. One great example of this is when a woman starts to mess with you, especially trying to make you jealous. One fantastic example of maintaining iron control is in a situation where a woman tries to make you jealous by talking about another man who wants to date her. In a case like this, simply tell her, “Well hey, you should go out with him!” And walk away. It will drive her insane.



Cocky Comedy is the next essential C in dating and meeting women. Use your sense of humor to show your confidence, bust her balls and keep her on her toes. This can be used anywhere, whether you are meeting women face to face or meeting women online. Especially if you are meeting women online, make fun of her for using the personals and make her feel like she a desperate, ugly woman! She will want to meet you quickly just to prove you wrong!

The fourth C of dating is CHALLENGE. Not challenge for you, the man, but challenge the woman. One of the most important things that David Deangelo conveys to men in all of his dating tips is that if a woman thinks you are an easy catch, or worse, caught, she will drop you like a hot potato. In person, you can convey that you are a challenge by maintaining an aloof nature, by “dismissing” her, by maintaining a “she has to fit into your schedule” kind of attitude. If you are meeting women online, you can convey this by telling her how busy you are, waiting a few days to call her, even breaking a date.

The last C in the dating tips given by David Deangelo and David M is CHARM. Charm is actually a combination of all the C’s put together. When you exude confidence, when you are funny, challenging and in control, you cannot help but create an alpha male attraction that women will be drawn to like flies. That charm you will be putting out there is not something a woman can define, but meeting women online or in person, it is like an indefinable pheromone that will literally draw a woman to you even f she does not know why.

Out these 5 C’s of dating together and you will find that what David Deangelo says in his Double Your Dating eBook is totally true – attraction is not a choice. Attraction is a gut level, instinctual reaction that does not necessarily depend on looks, stature or even sexual appeal. What men need to understand is that attraction mechanisms, for women, are completely different. Attraction, on an instinctual level for women relies on the alpha male status – simply put – the man she will be attracted to is the man who is in control, in charge and able to protect her, provide for her and even overpower her (watch the mating dance of any animal and you will know why I said that).

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Gay Dating Services For Gay People

A gay man looking for a guy at bars or nightclubs is the old way. People rarely go to clubs to find gay singles. Seeking dates online is the new way for gays and singles online. We have seen many services online gay dating booming on the Internet in recent years. Many web sites popular gay dating offers free dating services that help many gay singles online to find love and romance without charge.

We are talking about dating services free gay singles for gay men to find their dates on the Internet, which is easy, simple and convenient. Gay singles online should find dates online these gay dating services. It is simply too popular to find dates online these days. Many relationships are compatible created from these dating sites gay free. Thousands of single men gays want to join these sites every day. Gay singles are very happy when you join gay dating sites. Think of it this way, the service is like a social club that connects all free gay singles together. There are more singles joining each day. You must be next. Your dream partner awaits you.



There is countless number of online dating sites for the gays which offer the opportunity to meet and chat with other gays online and get to know them better. This can be considered as the safest mode of gay dating compared to the other ways available for this

Many gay relationships and marriage are generated from these totally free gay date sites. Many men are looking for men on these gay personals services to find love and romance on net. It is easy and simple to find gay dates on the Internet in recent years. We are gay single men and we are proud of ourselves. However, being an gay singleton is so sad and not fun at all. You have to find a date and it is completely free gay dating site to help online gay singles to find their soul mate.

Millions of gay singles are using gay online dating services worldwide. Of these millions of singles only a small percentage of singles have actually got out of their comfort zone, and really started to date online. There are a few barriers that singles fail to get over when they join an internet dating sites. Getting over these will magnify your chances of starting a relationship instead of just seeing other singles finding happiness.

We have talked about the dating and relationship research of these men of men to gay dating sites. In general, it is common to find single gay men online in recent years. The electronic worlds we live inside of us help find the real date on the Internet easily and conveniently

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Top Dating Tips – Your Dating Game Just Got A Hell Of A Lot Easier

In the dating game and looking for some top dating tips? Congratulations, because we’ve compiled some great tips that will give you INSTANT success!

Top Dating Tips Number 1 – Withholding Your Name For The Mystery Factor:

When you first start talking to a woman, never reveal your name, unless she specifically asks for it. If you withhold your name it will add a sense of mystery to you that will keep the girl very interested!

Top Dating Tips Number 2 – Say No To Instant Answers & Replies:

If you’re talking to a girl and she is telling you something, and you’re not sure what to say or do next, run 5 simple words through your head: how, why, what, where, when. You’ll instantly find new statements and questions you can ask by using these 5 words to keep the conversation going. It will also make it look as if you have actually LISTENED to every word the girl said…



Top Dating Tips Number 3 – One Way Number Swaps Are A No Go:

Never only give your number to a girl. Doing so leaves too high a chance that she wont call you! Instead, just get hers or do a two way swap…she gives you her number, and you give her yours. The balance of equal power makes the end of the conversation feel less like a standard pickup.

Top Dating Tips Number 4 – Let Her Know You’re Sexualy Interested:

Never be afraid to make it obvious you are attracted to a girl you are talking to! Women give their indications of their interest in a man through body language, like the things they say, and other flirty behavior. But, they need something in return. Once you have been talking to a woman for a while, and you feel like you’re getting on well, tell the girl you think she is very sexy.

Don’t say you think she’s nice or attractive, say sexy. This will let her know how you feel and if you have been getting on really well, chances are she will love hearing you say it and get even more flirtatious and hands on with you!

Top Dating Tips Number 5 – Progress With Your Questioning:

Always remember that open ended questions are better than those that are easy to answer with a simple “yes” or “No”. So for instance instead of asking a girl “Do you like working here” ask the question ” So, what’s it like working here?”.

Let’s do another example. Instead of asking “have you had a good day?” Ask her “So, what’s the best thing that’s happened to you today then?”

So there’s 5 top dating tips that will get you on more dates if you use them in your pickup. There’s plenty more on the site below.

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