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Dating Tips for Men

Okay so you get to date the girl of your dreams, good job! What to do next? Here are some dating tips for men so you won’t blow this opportunity off.

1.      Set a date that would allow you to prepare for the big day. Let’s say one or two days before, so you can plan it well. Make sure you confirm the said date with her first.

2.      Be prepared. Know what type of girl your date is. Find something you both love to do then do it together. Make sure you get the correct details or else this date would be a disaster.

3.      Be early. Being on time is good but being early on a date is better. It gives you time to make sure the details are all set and the mood is perfect.

4.      Look your best. Feel good about yourself and you’ll feel good all throughout the night.

5.      Give her ample time to get ready. Let’s face it, when a woman said she’ll be ready in five minutes it usually means thirty or more. But don’t let that ruin your mood, she’d like to feel good about herself as well and make you not regret you chose to date her.

6.      Focus only on her. Women don’t want their dates looking at other women, they will either find excuses to leave early or there will be no second date at all. Give her your full attention but not to the extent of annoying her.

7.      Talk and listen. As much as you want to know more about her, assume that she wants to know more about you either but don’t let it be an all-you-night because that may bore her and give the impression that you’re not really interested.

8.      Be a gentleman. A man who knows how to respect a woman usually wins at the end.

Getting her to date you is just the first part of the whole process. These dating tips for men can help you get that second date and if you’re lucky you might just be dating your future partner. Enjoy the moment but remember to be serious with this, because she does not just date anyone or everyone who asks her out.

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Dating Tips For Men – What To Say On Your First Date

1. Okay, so she has a great body and great cleavage but that does not mean that you have to be like a deer caught in headlights. Try to focus on her eyes instead and safe yourself from a burning cheek. I know it is difficult but at least try.

2. Make her feel better about herself for having spent time with you and you are guaranteed a second date. How do you do that? Easy, pay attention to her. Ask her questions and do try to listen to her answers, got you, you were looking at the headlights again.

3. Ask her more questions based on what she has said, this will make her realize that you’ve been listening, hopefully, and this will score you some points.

4. Don’t imitate Napoleon. I am sure he would approve but your date is not some target that needs to be attacked from all corners, leaving no stone unturned. This is a very important dating tip for men as your date will feel like the subject of a forensic investigation if you pepper her with too many questions.

5. Find out what her interests are. Ask her about her hobbies and her taste in music. Show sincere interest and also answer her questions honestly which leads us to the next tip.

6. Don’t pretend to be Indiana Jones only for her to find out that you are more of a collecting butterflies man. Nothing against the butterfly men but it is important to be honest if you intend to be more than just friends. While we are on the subject of friends, don’t fall into the fly, sorry, I mean friend trap, most men don’t even see it coming.

7. Don’t do the checklist thing. Your questions to her should be as natural as possible. Also try to avoid questions like “Do you have medical insurance?” and “How much money do you make?” You might not like the answer to the second question.

8. Don’t be a whinger. Seriously, save that for when you’ve already endeared yourself to them. I know people who have spent their entire first date discussing the merits of Snow Patrol over Coldplay or Tom Cruise over Hugh Grant.

9. This is undoubtedly one of the most important dating tips for men, wait for it, DON’T EVER ask her about past relationships. This is a death trap that few can survive. The dry bones in the desert whisper it constantly for the wind to carry to those ears that still have a chance. Also, don’t volunteer information on your past relationships – there will be enough time for that later. I don’t understand why so many people find it necessary to do this. Trust me, no good will come from it.

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Fun things to do with your online date

Okay, first of all don’t start deriving kinky meanings from the blog title! I know most of you would have asked your online dating partner out on a real date on Valentine’s Day. But now that the special ‘day of love’ is over, you have to strive hard to keep sustain and grow their interest in you. Here are few fun things that you can do with your online dating or text dating partner for all your future dates:

So you’ve met your online date once and are very eager to meet him/her again. But, you are not sure whether they would want to meet you again too. Most importantly, you don’t know what to do on your next date. Think simple. Think movies. Take your online dating partner out on a movie date. Ask him/her if there is any particular movie in the theatres that he/she would like to watch. Get the tickets and have a great time with your online dating partner. On the other hand, if you are absolutely positive that your online date is equally interested and attracted to you, now is the time to come a little closer. How about a ‘stay-at-home’ movie date? Get a bag of pop-corn and pretzels and watch a super romantic movie with your online dating partner. That sure will get a great chemistry going between the two of you!



Suppose you’ve already been to a movie on your first date, think of other crazy but fun ideas. Play paintball! Paintball is fun and messy and that’s all you need to get closer to the woman or man you are so very attracted to. Play as a team and bond with your date. Or give each other a good clean-up after the game is over. Basically, the idea is to let go of your apprehensions and just have fun with your date. Or, you could also take your date to an amusement park. Your date will always remember the great time he/she had with you on the crazy rides that made him/her scream with joy and excitement!

Cooking with your date has its own special romantic moments. Right from shopping for the ingredients to kneading the dough, refilling the wine glasses and having a peaceful, romantic candle-light dinner in the privacy of your apartment – could there be a more delightful way to spend quality time with your date?

Go ahead and try these tips out. Your online date would surely find more reasons to see you more often!

For more tips on online dating and text dating or to meet new singles in your city, please visit www.textdating.ca

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First Dating Tip: How To Have Fun On A Big Date

Okay, the guy you’ve been crushing on forever just called and asked you out. You want the night to be perfect. Follow these first dating tips to have a wonderful, safe time.

First Dating Tip #1: Clarify the Details

When you hear the words “big date,” you may be thinking formal gowns and tuxedos. Your guy may be thinking dinner and a movie. So clarify what you’re going to do and what kind of dress code is expected.

First Dating Tip #2: It’s All in the Attitude

Many girls would do anything to snag that first date, even agree to go rock climbing when their idea of a hard workout is changing the channel on the television set. These dates often end with everyone in a bad mood. If you’ve agreed to an activity you don’t really like, be a good sport about it. You might have fun. At the very least, you can get to a second date by saying, “Next time we’ll have to try something I’m good at.”



First Dating Tip #3: Communicate

Girls tend to get chatty when they’re nervous; guys tend to clam up. Girls usually spill their deepest secrets in fifteen seconds or less; guys may never spill them at all. On the first date, keep the conversation light. Try to make sure you each do about 50% of the talking. If he’s playing the strong, silent type, try to get him speaking by asking about his interests. Use open ended questions. “Did you like the movie?” can be answered with a yes or a no. “What did you like best about the movie?” requires a little more speech.

First Dating Tip #4: Stay Sober

Sure, alcohol lubricates the tongue, but a lubricated tongue can say things that make you want to curl up and die when you think back on them the next morning. More importantly, being sober can keep you safe. Up to 90% of date rapes occur when one or more parties have been drinking.

First Dating Tip #5: Follow Up

If you had a nice time, do something the next day to let the guy know. E-mail him, text message him, phone him, or send him a nice note. Thank him for a nice time and suggest another activity you could do together. (For instance: “Loved watching the football game with you. Are you up for basketball next week?”) Guys often aren’t sure what to do after a first date, and this kind of follow up points him in the right direction.

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The Best Top 10 Dating Tips for Women

You may have found many lists of the top 10 dating tips for women, but the best ones address the most important facets of the dating experience. Dating is the meeting of two people and what may be their one chance to find out if they are compatible with each other. One top ten list features advice for women who want help with their dating relationships.

1. It is okay to be mysterious, but do not be too aloof. If you withhold too much of yourself, your date may decide that you are just not concerned with him in the slightest. He needs to see some spark of interest in your eyes or your demeanor, or he will move on quickly to the next woman.

2. Take part as much as possible in the decisions of the dating situation. There may be times when you will want to defer to him. However, you can show your strength and interesting personality by giving your input.

3. Talk, but not too much. Do not let the conversation lag into an uncomfortable silence. On the other hand, do not talk incessantly about yourself, your job, your friends and your family. There is plenty of time for the two of you to learn about these parts of each others lives, but the first date is a time to introduce the topics and allow the conversation to move on to other subjects.



4. Dress appropriately for the event or occasion of the date. You would not wear an evening dress to a ballgame or a swimsuit to a movie theater. Take that thought one step further and choose clothing that truly expresses the level of casualness or formality of the event. Take all the top 10 dating tips for women into account when you choose your wardrobe.

5. If you are not adept at doing your makeup and styling your hair, set up an appointment with a stylist who can help you learn. Then, fix yourself up before going on a date. Men are very visually oriented creatures, so appearances mean a lot. Looking your best on the date, especially the first date, is essential to a successful outing.

6. Do not drink too much alcohol on the date. If you wonder how much is too much, just think back on the last time you drank alcohol and ended up doing things you regretted later. Think about the embarrassing things you said because you did not have enough control to stay quiet. If you have never been that drunk, remember that it is possible if you are not careful.

7. Do not mistake rudeness for sophistication. Your date might enjoy your wise-cracking banter when it comes to something that does not involve him. However, aim that attitude towards something he has said, done or given you and he will just see it as rudeness.

8. Accept compliments with grace and enjoyment. There is no reason to feel awkward or embarrassed when someone says something nice about you, although many people do feel that way. Instead, realize when your date is being sincere and let him know you appreciate it.

9. Do not appear too anxious to make a second date. He may bring up the subject, or you may want to mention it. Just do not let your date think you will be devastated if it does not happen the way you want it to. That just makes you seem desperate.

10. Follow up three or four days after the date to remind him that you had a wonderful time. Mention specifically what you enjoyed about the experience and let him know that you are happy you went on the date with him. Use the top 10 dating tips for women to make him feel appreciated.

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Dating tips for gay women: and you thought coming out of the closet was hard!

Once you’re out of the closet and okay with your own sexuality, the hard part begins; finding friends. Even if you’re not looking specifically for a date, finding like minded individuals will help you come to terms with your own sexuality and help move you forward to the next stage of your lesbian life.

The first dating tip for gay women is to find other gay women. Do a quick online search for ‘gar bar’ and your local area, and no matter how conservative you thought your neighbourhood was, chances are there’ll be one or two within driving distance. Pick a night of the week and take the plunge. If you’re too nervous to go by yourself, take a straight friend with you so they can be your wing woman. This will make you feel at ease, and might also help if your friend is uncomfortable about your sexuality.

If your friends have come to terms with your sexuality, they can be a great resource in hooking you up. They might know someone at work who is a lesbian, or pass a gay support centre on their way to school. If you already know people who are gay, they can look around their friends and see who might have the most common with you.

Another great dating tip is to find women who have similar interests as you, like in a gay book club. Search online, or ask at a book store that you know sells homosexual literature. If you’re an avid reader, this is the perfect place to meet someone who has interests similar to yours. If you’re more adventurous, go to your local sports club and ask about gay teams. You don’t have to be a good player to join in and have some fun, and most importantly, meet new people.

Once you’ve found someone you like, the next dating tip is to make the move. For people who are new to their sexuality, flirting with someone of their own gender can be quite a scary thought. Remember to take it easy and relax, people can tell when you’re nervous it might be taken the wrong way; she might think you don’t like her when you really do. Flirting is the same across all sexual borders. When you’re out with friends, pay special attention to her. Look directly in her eyes when she speaks, and even offer to buy her a drink. 
If you’re not sure if she feels the same, start off with slow flirting. Sit next to her and make your legs touch, or touch her hand gently when she talks. If she backs off or looks uncomfortable, take the hint and don’t push it further; you may end up losing a friend. If she takes the bait, ask her out for dinner and a movie. The classics aren’t just for the straight couples.

Keep these dating tips in mind the next time you go out. Who knows, they might help you find the love of your life.

 

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