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Dating Tips for Guys – How to Handle Dating More Than One Woman

When the topic of dating more than one woman comes up, things tend to get a bit polarized. Some people think that it is wrong to date more than one woman at a time and there’s nothing that you can do to change their mind. And then there are some that are open to the idea, simply because they are not really in frame of mind where they want to just be focused on one woman. I’m going to assume that you are in the second group, because well, you probably would not be reading this article if you weren’t.

Personally, I see nothing wrong with dating more than one woman at a time, as long as you are not telling them that you are being exclusive to them and then running around behind their back. Dating has gotten a lot more modern anyways, and even a lot of women don’t want to be exclusive or rush things into commitment too soon.

Here are some dating tips for guys on how to handle dating more than one woman:

1. I have to say it again… you need to make sure that the women you are dating are aware that it is not an exclusive relationship.

Try to get around this, and you are pretty much guaranteed to end up in a sticky situation somewhere down the road. Some guys make the assumption that they have to hide the fact that they are seeing more than one woman, because they don’t think any woman will be cool with it. Times have changed and she’s more than likely going to be cool with it as long as you are not playing games with her.

2. You have to make sure that you can handle being open about things and allowing her the same luxury.

It’s not going to work out in most situations if you expect that she needs to be exclusive to you, and that you can go and do your own thing. So, you need to be able to handle the possibility that whatever woman you are not with could very well be out on a date with another guy. If you can’t handle this, then dating more than one woman probably is not for you.

3. You need to be responsible.

Hey, if you are going to play the field, then you cannot allow yourself to slack on the safety. Always make sure that you are protected when you are dating more than one woman. Most guys don’t think about safe sex until it is too late, but if you are going to date more than one woman at a time, this should definitely be on your mind at all times.

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Dating Tips to Get the Guy: 10 tips to keep YOU on HIS mind!

Ok, let’s be honest…guys are animals and they do have a predator-prey mentality.  They enjoy the challenge and if it’s too easy to pounce on the prize then they’ll be looking for their next gazelle in no time!  It isn’t about playing games, it’s about playing it smart.  You still need to be yourself but at first you don’t need to reveal everything and giving him a little at a time can pay off a lot!

1)      Get beautified for your date!  It makes you feel sexy and him fall off the barstool when you walk into the restaurant (if it’s a first time date than you should meet him and not let him pick you up unless he’s a good friend of a friend or you’ve known him).  Get a Mani Pedi (or do one yourself), where a nice dress (only reveal to your comfort level but stay classy (slutty will only have him thinking your easy) and where high heels because it will elongate your legs and is the signature footwear of a women.  Remember, if you feel beautiful and sexy then it will project onto everyone around you!  Confidence is key!

2)      On your first date, try to talk about neutral but exciting subjects.  Go with cool experiences, places you’ve traveled, hobbies etc.  Stick to things that determine if you have anything in common.  Stay away from personal subjects like your family, how many kids you want, your timeline for getting married, and your last boyfriend disaster!  I’m not that far off, us women do it all the time and add alcohol to the mix and were an open book!

3)      Make sure your not dominating the conversation.  It’s not a conversation if you’re the only one talking!  Remember to let him chime in and don’t interrupt…it’s annoying to not be able to finish a sentence so raise your awareness of the give and take.

4)      Always be the one to end the date!  This is very important because the more he wonders about you the crazier it makes him!  Don’t be abrupt, just let him know you had a good time (if you did) and that you’ll talk to him soon.  You can say that you have an early morning and if he asks what you have to do then say that you have to work or work-out, they are two good reasons to get up.

5)      Wait for him to call you.  If he’s interested he WILL call, just be patient and go on with your life.  If he doesn’t call then keep moving.  Don’t stop dating because you’re waiting on him and keep busy. 

6)      When he does call, send it to voicemail.  Give him a call back a few hours later and let him know you had a busy day.  Give him some time to wonder why you didn’t pick up…remember the more he thinks about you the better!  Another quick note- Do NOT get in the texting habit!  If he texts you then send back a vague response so he’ll call.  If he text’s that he had a great time on your date then simply text back “me too.”  You do not want to let texting become your main form of communication because it does not give you the opportunity to connect and holds up progress.

7)      When you do talk on the phone make sure that you are the first to get off.  Always demonstrate that you “have a life.”  You want him to recognize your independence and confidence which are both attractive qualities.  At first, try to limit your conversations to 10 minutes to make sure that you close out the convo! 

8)      Reject his first offer on the day for the next date.  If he asks to take you out Saturday then HAVE PLANS and you don’t need to tell him what they are just keep him wondering!  Then you can recommend a day the YOU are available.  If he’s not available on that day than make him wait even longer to see you.  If he rearranges his schedule to take you up on the day your available than you know he’s really into you!

9)      Again, baby steps!  Reveal a little at a time… which brings me to the big reveal!  DON’T have sex to early!  That is one of the things he thinks about, is working for and wants REALLY bad so don’t give it up.  You have to hold out or you’re risking losing him.  Some say to wait 90 days and if that’s what makes you comfortable then go for it but I recommend 5 weeks or 10 dates….whichever comes first!  Again it’s your comfort level!

10)  Don’t go on vacation before the 5 weeks or 10 dates because he’s working hard and that king size bed in the hotel room in his mind is his ticket into your playhouse!  Be careful and keep the key to your chastity belt hidden in a safe place!  One of the biggest mistakes women make is to go away for a weekend and give up the goods.  WAIT and save the weekend away for later!

Those are my top 10 dating tips but remember, anyone coming into your life should enhance it not make it what it is.  Have your own interests, hobbies, and life outside of the relationship.  You want to make sure that if it doesn’t work out you still have things that are just for you.

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Dating Tips for Guys- First Date Tips to Help You Get a Second Date

Once a woman has agreed to go on a first date with her,  your mind will automatically start to think about getting a second and possibly third date as well.  After all,  if she is an attractive woman and you kind of already feel like you are going to click well with her… why not try and get another date with her?  For a lot of guys,  the first date can be filled with stress and anxiety about trying to do the right things to make her enjoy herself and want to see you again.

Most traditional first dates are anything but enjoyable.  If you do the whole dinner thing,  then you probably have that awkward discussion that ends up being more of an interview than it does a good time for 2 people.  Trying to get a second date after having a night filled with boring and generic questions is not the best way to go about it.

When you take a woman out on a first date,  you want to be memorable and you want to leave her feeling like she wants MORE of you.  You want her to go home thinking about how much she likes you,  or even better… you want her to wake up next to you the next morning thinking about what a great night it was.

Here are a few first date tips to help you get a second date with a woman:

1)  Try to find something outside of the normal first date places to go and things to do.

You have a much better chance of making a woman feel like she wants to see you again if you take her somewhere or do something with her that goes outside of the norm.  She will be a lot more likely to want to see you again if you surprise her and she feels as though you are not like most men that she comes into contact with.  The good thing about this is,  if you get creative enough,  it does not even have to cost a lot of money.

2)  Focus more on making her laugh and have a good time than interviewing her.

The reason why so many people find a first date kind of tense is that they feel like they have to answer each question the right way.  Skip asking so many questions and instead think about trying to make her laugh and have a good time with you.  If she is going to end up thinking about you and wanting more and more of you,  then it’s probably not going to be  the result of asking her a bunch of questions.

3)  Read her body language signals to know when to escalate things with her.

If you really want the first date to go well,  then you need to be able to read a woman’s body language signals so that you know when she is uncomfortable and when she is showing clear signs of attraction.  Women give off signals all of the time and if you learn how to read her body language,  then you know when the right time to escalate things with her.

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Tips on Evaluating the Perfect Internet Dating Service for your Needs

What should you keep in mind when choosing a dating agency?

As technology has advanced with leaps and bounds, and the World Wide Web is making the world a smaller place, a new social revolution has begun. More and more people are logging on to the internet in the hope of discovering the joys of online dating. With the varied online dating options available, people are constantly looking for the best dating service available to cater to their needs.

Latest technology and increasing popularity have converted these dating services into money making ventures offering different packages to suit all budgets. The packages vary based on the features available to users. But with increasing competition and tall orders promised by these websites, it is imperative for users to evaluate the right dating service suiting their requirements, before joining a particular service.

There are some basic important feature one can look for before investing their time and money into a particular site.

Online search capabilities

A popular online dating service should provide the user with quick and comprehensive searching capabilities. The site should also allow users to search for other members based on a choice of options like location, area of interest etc. This capability increases your chances of meeting with the right set of people in the shortest possible time.



Comprehensive personal profiles

A good online dating service gives in-depth and detailed options for personal profiles to help its members find the best possible match for potential partners. Comprehensive dating profile also allows members to get to know each other better before they start communicating with each other. This increases their mutual chances of success as they get to select the most compatible partners by matching their personalities to each other.

Varied membership features

A good online dating service will provide users a choice of different membership packages for specific amount and duration. A popular site can charge anything from .00/ month to .00 a month. Based on the package, the site offers increasing levels of personalization features as well as conveniences like internal emails, instant messengers, online chat, background checks on chosen members, newsletters, credit checks, photo albums etc.

Site navigation

Some of the better online dating services provide simple and convenient site navigation. This makes the site more user-friendly. Base on packages, members can also opt for ad-free pages and remove the extra clutter on the website, making online dating a more pleasant experience. A good site will also allow users to view and compare multiple search results to narrow down the search to a more specific match.

Online and Offline Customer Support

Internet dating is largely dependent on technology. And hitches are expected. It is thus important for the dating service to have a good customer support system. This is useful not only when dealing with technical difficulties but also for dealing with basic know-how on the best way to use the site or accessing a particular feature.

Help and customer support can be available both online and offline. This can include FAQs, telephonic support, live chat and email.

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First Date Tips To Keep In Mind After Meeting Up Online

There are some first date tips that you will want to keep in mind after you’ve connected with someone that you’ve met online. Online dating is fun, but eventually you will have to meet up in real life if you want to further the relationship. So in this article, we will take a look at some first date tips that you can use to have success with the woman that you’re meeting up with.

The first thing that you should know is that you should meet in a public area. Nothing kills a woman’s confidence in you than meeting in an area where there aren’t alot of people around. One good way to instill confidence in a woman about you is to take her to your local Starbucks. A coffee date is a low-key approach to getting to know a woman better, and you benefit because it’s a recognizable place with alot of people around.

If you’re considering dinner and a movie, it’s best to pick a restaurant that is well known. Doing a dinner and movie date is something that is traditional but is still done everyday around the world. You will want to make sure that you have lots to talk about, and that you can stimulate her mentally with your conversation.

Alternatively, if you know that she loves sports, you can take her to a sports event. For example, if you like basketball and you know that she likes basketball, you should take her to a basketball game. I imagine that there would be lots to talk about as you both can discuss things about your favorite players.

If you’re more of an outdoors kind of person, consider going rock climbing. You don’t even how to do the real thing – there are some fitness gyms that offer indoor rock climbing. They have the simulation rock setup where you can actually go and climb on the rocks. This is a great way to break the ice and to have fun on your first date.

If you can, try to make her feel as comfortable as possible. Depending on how well you know your date, it may not be in your best interests to put your arm around her yet. This can come across as a little too impersonal if you’re not careful about it. You always want to do as much as you can to have fun on your first date so that it can lead to a second one.

Try your best to appear confident throughout the whole date. You may even find it worthwhile to practice in front of a mirror before you leave the house. This will allow you to become comfortable with yourself, and you can practice some pickup lines that will help with awkward situations that you may run into. Practicing in front of a mirror will also help to improve your chances of success, as it will allow you to see how you look when talking to your date.

To have success, keep these first date tips in mind so that you can be as successful as possible.

Good luck with your first date and getting your date to like you.

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Top 10 First Date Tips

We are all aware of the saying that first impression is the last. It fits well even in the case of dating. The way you present and carry yourself would decide if you can get the attention of the person you are dating with or not. So it’s advisable to be prepared and keep in mind few tips before going for a date. If you are a guy you have to be more attentive and responsible while dating because dating is comparably hard at guy’s side. Here I will discuss top ten dating tips for guys.

Before going out on a date make sure you have enough cash in your pockets because it’s only you who should pay for everything. Never ever mention to split the bills. If the gal asks for splitting the bill, don’t listen to her. But if she insists too much, then let her pay the amount she wishes to pay.

For first time dating, you should be careful about choosing the location. Choose some place where you two can sit, talk and spend some peaceful time together. Going out for a movie for first date is not advisable. Better to choose something romantic and sweet like ask her for dinner in some good restaurant. Always choose the place that you can afford, so tensions about paying the bill would not stuck to your mind. Never ask for lunch dates. First date should be at night. If you are having dinner together, it should be you who serve food in her plates and pour wine in her glass. Remember, girls always notice small efforts and appreciate them.



During dating, make sure that your mannerism is proper and acceptable. Keep small points in your mind like opening car door for date and let her in and out first. If you are going to sit somewhere out, hold her chair and help her sit. Serve food on her plates and pour wine in her glass. Don’t use foul language while talking about something. Last but not the least; you should go for dating at the time decided. Don’t be late.

Your body and tongue should show that you are a confident man. Girls don’t like weak guys. Whatever you guys talk about should show your confidence

Wear something appropriate for a date. You should be well groomed. You don’t have to look like a rock star. Instead, you have to look like a gentleman

Make sure that the topic you guys are going to talk about is good. Some people end up during first date because they talk about their ex’s and reasons why did they break up with them. Avoid talking about your past relationships.

Show respect towards your date. Make her feel special. Give her little compliments to keep her interested.

It’s better if you get a gift. Not an expensive one, just a normal one, like rose, token of love and affection. Remember, girls like gifts.

Don’t date for long time. Leave something interesting for next time. The time you two feel that it’s getting boring, you guys should head home.

At last, be honest. If you enjoyed dating, don’t wait long just call her and tell. If you didn’t enjoy, do the same. This would prevent you from bad ending in relationships.

To date the kind of person you like you can take help of online dating sites. These online dating sites are really useful and are user friendly. Millions of single men and single women are connected through these online dating sites. A local dating site connects single men and single women of specific region or area. If you are a single men / single women searching for a right partner in or near to your area, these local dating sites could really be very helpful. If you want to get dating advice, you can take help of internet search engines or some certain sites. Dating advice is important to take before going for a date for the first time. Following dating advice properly would help you to get attention of your dating mate positively.

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