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The Best Dating Tips for Men—Guaranteed to Work!

Are you looking for some of the top dating tips for men?  There are many people giving advice out there, some of which is contradictory.  Where does one begin to find the truth?  Start by putting yourself in a woman’s shoes.  No, don’t go out a buy a pair of high heels.  This is just an illustration.

How would you like it if you were hit on constantly by people that you were not attracted to?  Imagine being a woman and having a man stalking you almost every day of the week?  Now you’re starting to see part of the problem.  So many guys, and so little originality.  Contrary to what you might have heard, women are looking for friendly men, though not necessarily the “nice guy” you so often pretend to be.  Being nice doesn’t mean being a doormat.  You must have self-confidence.  You should be a kind person, but one with your own opinions.  

This is the biggest and best advice when it comes to dating tips for men: she must see you as her equal.  Think about the women you have been attracted to.  They were easy on the eyes, but what qualities besides looks really made you interested in them?  Did they smile, look you in the eye and tease you a little?  Were they fun to be around?  This is the person you want to be—-a fun and successful version of yourself.

Don’t put on a show, or flash cash to try to impress.  If you want an actual relationship with someone then you have to be yourself.  If you aren’t yourself, do you honestly think you can keep up an act throughout the life of the relationship?  That is tiring and self-defeating.  Being yourself doesn’t mean you should show up on a first date in a hole covered shirt, unwashed, and untidy!  On the contrary, don’t you feel special when a woman is all dolled up to go out with you?  Women feel the same way.  We want to see you at your best.  Putting your best face forward does not mean lying about who you are.  Don’t say you love things that you hate, or pretend to be someone you are not.  This route will only end in unhappiness.  Follow these dating tips for men and putt the right foot forward.

You may feel you already know these basic things, but you might be surprised at how many men don’t even bother with the basics of romance.  Many men ruin their first dates by talking about their exes, being rude, acting desperate, shy, or fake.  Avoiding the basic pitfalls, and following these dating tips for men, will put you ahead of the majority.

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First Date Tips For Men – What to Do, Where to Go, And What to Know

The first date can make you nervous and wondering what to do. You don’t want to make a fool of yourself. You want to be able to win her over and have her want you. Relax. We have all been in this position before. When I was younger, the first date always made me nervous.

Would I say the right things, would I be able to get her attracted to me?

The thing is, women feel the same pressure and go through the same kind of thoughts. In many ways, most women will have it worse than you do. The thing to remember is to not put the pressure on yourself. If you see a date as what it really is, a chance to go out and have a good time, you will take a mountain of pressure off of your shoulders.

And they will thank you for it.

Here are a couple of first date tips to help you out…

1. Instead of going out and doing the movie and dinner kind of routine, do something a little more relaxed and comfortable. A simple coffee shop will do. A lot of pressure comes off when you are in a situation that seems less like a date. And this works for her as well. She will be more likely to respond to you IF she doesn’t feel pressured to do so.

2. Have the state of mind, that it’s all about having a good time. Don’t think about the future or whether or not she will go out with you again BEFORE you even have your first date. When you are in this frame of mind, then you don’t worry about the little things.

The first date can make you nervous and this is natural. There are many ways that you can learn how to take the pressure off and techniques that will virtually guarantee that it is a success.

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Smart Tips for Online Dating Profile Pics

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In the world of online dating, the one thing that prompts most singles looking for a relationship to hit the ‘send a message’ button is a profile pic. Although we would agree that most online daters usually resolve to very flirtatious (or so it seems) profile pictures on online dating sites to attract other singles, however, we cannot help but get attracted to the ones that really catch our attention. If you are single and are looking for a serious relationship, here are some smart tips for profile pics that you might find handy in finding your perfect date:
Make eye contact: Statistics show that most singles who upload profile pics in which they stare right at the camera, so as to make a direct eye contact with those looking at the pic tend to attract more hits and messages. As against this, looking away from the camera may amount to a beautiful picture but does not reveal your interest in the onlooker. Such as picture might make you seem distant and reserved and is not a good choice for a dating profile pic. Pics that have eye contact make you seem interested and friendly.
Smile: Looking serious is frankly a big turn off. A smiling profile pic, on the contrary shows that ‘you won’t bite’, are friendly and approachable. This will not only help you attract like-minded singles but also reveal a positive and lighter side of you and help you attract similar singles interested in dating or looking for a relationship.
Flirt (but only a bit): Flirting seems to work quite well on online dating sites. But when it comes to choosing your profile picture, be a little cautious. You do not want to send out the wrong vibes or attract the wrong people. While it is okay to appear a little flirtatious in your profile pic, going overboard might make you seem very frivolous.
Abstain from pornographic profile pics: Nude/semi nude or pornographic pics show that you are desperate for a physical relationship and are not serious about finding a good dating partner. Watch out! This may attract sex predators!
Avoid bathroom mirror shots: Dude, seriously, that is old!! Bathroom shots taken of oneself with the flash reflecting in the mirror is passé. Think of more innovative ideas to click yourself!
Use a ‘present day’ picture: What good is a ten years older picture of you in which you looked younger (and probably slimmer!!) when you are looking for a real date in present day? Do not give out an incorrect impression about yourself. Ageing is a natural process. Accept it and let genuine people get attracted to who you really are now.
Here’s hoping that you will find these tips useful. So go ahead and put up your bests shot. You never know, your perfect date might just ‘hot poke’ you!
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